{"id":5254,"date":"2015-11-29T13:29:25","date_gmt":"2015-11-29T13:29:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.matsati.com\/?p=5254"},"modified":"2015-12-04T01:28:29","modified_gmt":"2015-12-04T01:28:29","slug":"bits-of-torah-truths-parashat-vayeshev-what-does-it-mean-to-hate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/bits-of-torah-truths-parashat-vayeshev-what-does-it-mean-to-hate\/","title":{"rendered":"Bits of Torah Truths, Parashat Vayeshev,  What does it mean \u201cto hate?\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[youtube url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=7zY-5IrMAK4&amp;feature=youtu.be&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>In this week\u2019s reading from Parashat Vayeshev (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Shemot \/ Genesis 37:1-40:23<\/span><\/em>) we learn that Jacob loved Joseph more than his brothers (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:3<\/span><\/em>, \u05d5\u05b0\u05d9\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05b5\u05dc \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5). Joseph had a dream about his future (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:5-10<\/span><\/em>) told his brothers and they became jealous (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:11<\/span><\/em>). As the narrative continues, Joseph\u2019s brothers are plotting murder in their hearts (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:18-22<\/span><\/em>) but instead put him into a pit (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:23<\/span><\/em>) and then sell him into slavery to the Ishmaelites (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:27-29<\/span><\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>This week\u2019s Parashah primarily discusses Joseph the eleventh son born to Jacob and the son of Rachael. The narrative tells us that Jacob showed Joseph favoritism over his brothers (\u05d5\u05b0\u05d9\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05b5\u05dc \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05db\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9-\u05d1\u05b6\u05df-\u05d6\u05b0\u05e7\u05bb\u05e0\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd) saying that he loved him more. This favoritism led to Jacob using Joseph to bring him news of his brothers, whether good or bad. Though Joseph was spoiled by Jacob, we are told that he walked in righteousness (\u05d5\u05bc\u05e6\u05b0\u05d3\u05b8\u05e7\u05b8\u05d4) and justice (\u05de\u05b4\u05e9\u05c1\u05b0\u05e4\u05bc\u05b8\u05d8) more so than his brothers. The Scriptures tell us that the Lord was with Joseph (\u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05b0\u05d4\u05b4\u05d9 \u05d9\u05b0\u05d4\u05d5\u05b9\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05b0\u05d4\u05b4\u05d9 \u05d0\u05b4\u05d9\u05e9\u05c1 \u05de\u05b7\u05e6\u05b0\u05dc\u05b4\u05d9\u05d7\u05b7) prospering him and preparing him for the future survival of Israel.<\/p>\n<p>According to the narrative, Joseph\u2019s brothers were grazing their flocks in Shechem. Previously in Parashat Vayishlach, Simeon and Levi killed all of the men living in the city of Shechem after having tricked them into being circumcised. Jacob moved away from Shechem following the rape of Dinah and the murder of the men of Shechem. However, the sons of Jacob continued to return to Shechem to feed their flock. Interestingly, the <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Talmud Bavli Shabbat 63a<\/span><\/em> states,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Talmud Bavli Shabbat 63a<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> Mishnah: Aman may not go out with a sword, nor with a bow, nor with a shield, nor with a round shield, nor with a spear. If he has gone out [with any of these] he is liable for a Chattat.<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Based upon the narrative, the sons of Jacob returned to a place of the sword and sexual sin. The <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Talmud Bavli Shabbat 63a<\/span><\/em> would conclude that the brothers continued return to a place of sexual sin and death makes them liable for a Chattat (\u05d7\u05d8\u05bc\u05d0\u05ea). Rightly so, Jacob was worried about his sons and the Torah indicates that Joseph would return with a bad report enumerating their sins. For this reason his brothers hated him and we are told that they could not speak peaceably to him.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>\u05e1\u05e4\u05e8 \u05d1\u05e8\u05d0\u05e9\u05d9\u05ea \u05e4\u05e8\u05e7 \u05dc\u05d6<\/strong><br \/>\n\u05d0 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b5\u05e9\u05c1\u05b6\u05d1 \u05d9\u05b7\u05e2\u05b2\u05e7\u05b9\u05d1 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05d0\u05b6\u05e8\u05b6\u05e5 \u05de\u05b0\u05d2\u05d5\u05bc\u05e8\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d0\u05b8\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05d0\u05b6\u05e8\u05b6\u05e5 \u05db\u05bc\u05b0\u05e0\u05b8\u05e2\u05b7\u05df: \u05d1 \u05d0\u05b5\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05d4 | \u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea \u05d9\u05b7\u05e2\u05b2\u05e7\u05b9\u05d1 \u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b6\u05df-\u05e9\u05c1\u05b0\u05d1\u05b7\u05e2-\u05e2\u05b6\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b5\u05d4 \u05e9\u05c1\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d4\u05b8\u05d9\u05b8\u05d4 \u05e8\u05b9\u05e2\u05b6\u05d4 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d0\u05b6\u05d7\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b7\u05e6\u05bc\u05b9\u05d0\u05df \u05d5\u05b0\u05d4\u05d5\u05bc\u05d0 \u05e0\u05b7\u05e2\u05b7\u05e8 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e0\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d1\u05b4\u05dc\u05b0\u05d4\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d5\u05b0\u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e0\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d6\u05b4\u05dc\u05b0\u05e4\u05bc\u05b8\u05d4 \u05e0\u05b0\u05e9\u05c1\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d0\u05b8\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b8\u05d1\u05b5\u05d0 \u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d3\u05bc\u05b4\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05ea\u05b8\u05dd \u05e8\u05b8\u05e2\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d0\u05b6\u05dc-\u05d0\u05b2\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d4\u05b6\u05dd: \u05d2 \u05d5\u05b0\u05d9\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05b5\u05dc \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05db\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9-\u05d1\u05b6\u05df-\u05d6\u05b0\u05e7\u05bb\u05e0\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd \u05d4\u05d5\u05bc\u05d0 \u05dc\u05d5\u05b9 \u05d5\u05b0\u05e2\u05b8\u05e9\u05b8\u05b9\u05d4 \u05dc\u05d5\u05b9 \u05db\u05bc\u05b0\u05ea\u05b9\u05e0\u05b6\u05ea \u05e4\u05bc\u05b7\u05e1\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd: \u05d3 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b4\u05e8\u05b0\u05d0\u05d5\u05bc \u05d0\u05b6\u05d7\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05db\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9-\u05d0\u05b9\u05ea\u05d5\u05b9 \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b2\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d4\u05b6\u05dd \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d0\u05b6\u05d7\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e0\u05b0\u05d0\u05d5\u05bc \u05d0\u05b9\u05ea\u05d5\u05b9 \u05d5\u05b0\u05dc\u05b9\u05d0 \u05d9\u05b8\u05db\u05b0\u05dc\u05d5\u05bc \u05d3\u05bc\u05b7\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e8\u05d5\u05b9 \u05dc\u05b0\u05e9\u05c1\u05b8\u05dc\u05b9\u05dd:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Bereshit \/ Genesis 37:1-4<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> 37:1 Now Jacob lived in the land where his father had sojourned, in the land of Canaan. 37:2 These are the records of the generations of Jacob. Joseph, when seventeen years of age, was pasturing the flock with his brothers while he was still a youth, along with the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father\u2019s wives. And Joseph brought back a bad report about them to their father. 37:3 Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his sons, because he was the son of his old age; and he made him a varicolored tunic. 37:4 His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers; and so they hated him and could not speak to him on friendly terms. (NASB)<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The Torah portion opens saying <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:1 Now Jacob lived in the land where his father had sojourned, in the land of Canaan. 37:2 These are the records of the generations of Jacob&#8230;<\/span><\/em> Rashbam opens in his commentary on <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Bereshit \/ Genesis 37:2<\/span><\/em> saying the following,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Rashbam on Genesis 37:2<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> Those who love pure reason should always remember that the sages have said a Biblical passage must not be deprived of its plain meaning. Because the main point of Torah comes to teach us and tell us in hints found in the plain meaning of the text, the hagadot, and halachot and laws derived through lengthy words and the 32 and 13 laws by which we derive law from the text of the Torah. The Rishonim, because of their piety busied themselves with the drashot as their focus, and they did not regularly delve into the plain meaning of the text, and because the Chachamim said not to spend too much time with logic and expressed the significance not of learning Torah but of learning Talmud as having no greater measure, they did not regularly engage in establishing the plain meaning of the text. Even Rashi the father of my mother set his heart to explain the plain meaning of the text, even my grandfather Shlomo was an adherent of this school; and I had an argument with him on that account, in which he admitted that he would make new commentaries according to the plain meanings that arise each day.<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Rashbam is expressing in his comments the importance of studying the Torah as opposed to focusing upon the drashot (teachings). He appears to be saying that what we find in the Talmud, and in the body of rabbinic literature is commentary, and that the most important aspect of Torah study is <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cto teach us and tell us in hints found in the plain meaning of the text, the hagadot, and halachot.\u201d<\/span><\/em> His words suggest the Haggadah (\u05d4\u05b7\u05d2\u05b8\u05bc\u05d3\u05b8\u05d4, <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201ctelling\u201d<\/span><\/em>) and Halakha (\u05d4\u05b2\u05dc\u05b8\u05db\u05b8\u05d4, <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201chow to live Torah\u201d<\/span><\/em>) according to the plain meaning (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">the peshat<\/span><\/em>) of Torah is most important. He is not saying to make up our own Halakha but is emphasizing the importance of studying and remembering God\u2019s Word which has the capability of effecting our lives for God\u2019s glory!<\/p>\n<p>In the opening sentences of Parashat Vayeshev, we read a number of interesting things concerning the relationship of Jacob, Joseph, and his brothers. The MT states, \u05d1 \u05d0\u05b5\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05d4 | \u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea \u05d9\u05b7\u05e2\u05b2\u05e7\u05b9\u05d1 \u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b6\u05df-\u05e9\u05c1\u05b0\u05d1\u05b7\u05e2-\u05e2\u05b6\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b5\u05d4 \u05e9\u05c1\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d4\u05b8\u05d9\u05b8\u05d4 \u05e8\u05b9\u05e2\u05b6\u05d4 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d0\u05b6\u05d7\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b7\u05e6\u05bc\u05b9\u05d0\u05df \u05d5\u05b0\u05d4\u05d5\u05bc\u05d0 \u05e0\u05b7\u05e2\u05b7\u05e8 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e0\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d1\u05b4\u05dc\u05b0\u05d4\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d5\u05b0\u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e0\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d6\u05b4\u05dc\u05b0\u05e4\u05bc\u05b8\u05d4 \u05e0\u05b0\u05e9\u05c1\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d0\u05b8\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b8\u05d1\u05b5\u05d0 \u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d3\u05bc\u05b4\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05ea\u05b8\u05dd \u05e8\u05b8\u05e2\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d0\u05b6\u05dc-\u05d0\u05b2\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d4\u05b6\u05dd: <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:2 These are the records of the generations of Jacob. Joseph, when seventeen years of age, was pasturing the flock with his brothers while he was still a youth, along with the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father\u2019s wives. And Joseph brought back a bad report about them to their father. (NASB)<\/span><\/em> The Torah states specifically, using the words, \u05d0\u05b5\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05d4 | \u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea \u05d9\u05b7\u05e2\u05b2\u05e7\u05b9\u05d1 <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthese are the generations of Jacob&#8230;\u201d<\/span><\/em> however, only Joseph is mentioned by name, and his brothers are described as <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthe sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father\u2019s wives.\u201d<\/span><\/em> What is interesting is how only Joseph is mentioned by name, and Moshe writes of only the sons if Bilhah and Zilpah, the slave girls who became Jacob\u2019s wives after having been married to Leah and Rachael. (<em>Bilhah and Zilpah were given to Jacob for the purpose of bearing more children.<\/em>) The manner in which the <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cgenerations\u201d<\/span><\/em> (\u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea) is described here is distinctly different from previous designations of the generations which lists out the names of one\u2019s descendants. What is the Torah trying to tell us here?<\/p>\n<p>The rabbis have the following to say concerning this observation on the <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cgenerations\u201d<\/span><\/em> (\u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea) in <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Bereshit \/ Genesis 37:2<\/span><\/em>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Radak on Genesis 37:2, 1<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> \u05d0\u05dc\u05d4 \u05ea\u05d5\u05dc\u05d3\u05d5\u05ea \u05d9\u05e2\u05e7\u05d1, the meaning of the word \u05ea\u05d5\u05dc\u05d3\u05d5\u05ea in our context here is \u201chappenings, developments.\u201d It includes all kinds of traumas Yaakov would experience. Genesis 6:9 similarly introduced what happened to Noach with these words. The philological bridge to the word \u05ea\u05d5\u05dc\u05d3\u05d5\u05ea when it refers to biological progeny is Proverbs 27:1 \u05db\u05d9 \u05dc\u05d0 \u05ea\u05d3\u05e2 \u05de\u05d4 \u05d9\u05dc\u05d3 \u05d4\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd, \u201cfor you do not know what the day will give birth to.\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Radak interprets the word toldot (\u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea) to say that this refers to <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201chappenings, developments\u201d<\/span><\/em> occurring in Jacob\u2019s life rather than to provide a list of the generations. He parallels the generations to Noach (\u05d8 \u05d0\u05b5\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05d4 \u05ea\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05b9\u05ea \u05e0\u05b9\u05d7\u05b7 \u05e0\u05b9\u05d7\u05b7 \u05d0\u05b4\u05d9\u05e9\u05c1 \u05e6\u05b7\u05d3\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9\u05e7 \u05ea\u05bc\u05b8\u05de\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd \u05d4\u05b8\u05d9\u05b8\u05d4 \u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05d3\u05b9\u05e8\u05b9\u05ea\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05b1\u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d4\u05b8\u05d0\u05b1\u05dc\u05b9\u05d4\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd \u05d4\u05b4\u05ea\u05b0\u05d4\u05b7\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05da\u05b0-\u05e0\u05b9\u05d7\u05b7:) that this was the happenings, developments, or situation of Noah, that the word toldot (\u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea) does not always refer to the biological progeny. Radak says this is how the word toldot (\u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea) is being used here to reference the traumatic life of Jacob. This is further explained in his comments in Part 6 on the Torah Portion as follows.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Radak on Genesis 37:2, 6<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> \u05d5\u05d9\u05d1\u05d0 \u05d9\u05d5\u05e1\u05e3 \u05d0\u05ea \u05d3\u05d1\u05ea\u05dd \u05e8\u05e2\u05d4, he told his father that his brothers hated him, i.e. both the sons of the former servant maids with whom he was being raised, as well as the sons of Leah to whom he felt superior because he enjoyed preferential treatment by his father. As a result, the brothers sought pretexts to treat him meanly. Yaakov was angry at the brothers on behalf of Joseph, interpreting the brothers\u2019 hatred of Joseph as jealousy due to his loving Joseph excessively. (verses 3 and 4). In Bereshit Rabbah 84:7 we are told that according to Rabbi Meir Joseph told his fathers that the brothers were suspect of violating the commandment not to eat flesh from a still living animal, whereas Rabbi Yehudah is supposed to have said that Joseph accused them of treating the sons of Bilhah and Zilpah with disdain, referring to them as \u201cslaves.\u201d Rabbi Shimon is reported as saying that Joseph accused the brothers of casting lustful glances at the local Canaanite girls. Rabbi Yehudah bar Seymon claims that G\u2019d repaid Joseph for all three accusations as we derive from Proverbs 16:11 \u05e4\u05dc\u05e1 \u05d5\u05de\u05d0\u05d6\u05e0\u05d9 \u05de\u05e9\u05e4\u05d8 \u05dc\u05d4\u2019, \u201cHonest scales and weights are the Lord\u2019s.\u201d G\u2019d said to him: \u201cyou accused your brothers of violating the law of \u05d0\u05d1\u05e8 \u05de\u05df \u05d4\u05d7\u05d9, you will be a witness that even when they were engaged in a sinful enterprise such as dipping your cloak in blood before presenting it to your father, they first slaughtered the male goat ritually, as is required when they would eat it. You accused them of calling the sons of Zilpah and Bilhah slaves, that is why you yourself were sold into slavery (Psalms 105:17) You accused your brothers of looking lecherously at the local girls, I will cause you to be tempted by this very phenomenon.\u201d This is why the Torah described the wife of Potiphar attempting to seduce Joseph (39,7)<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The commentary continues trying to explain what was going on between the brothers and specifically in the toldot (\u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea) only Joseph is mentioned by name, and his brothers are mentioned as <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthe sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father\u2019s wive.\u201d<\/span><\/em> Moshe writes of only the sons if Bilhah and Zilpah. The idea is that being sons of slave girls, his brothers are some how lesser, as opposed to Joseph being greater, being born to the one to whom Jacob loved the most. Jacob\u2019s excessive love and favoritism of Joseph caused his brothers to hate him. The bad report or accusations Joseph brought was due to the brothers being <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthe sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah.\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Other Jewish commentators (Rashi and Sforno) also note the amount of anger between Joseph and his brothers in their commentaries.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Rashi on Bereshit \/ Genesis 37:2<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> Any bad which he saw in his brothers the children of Leah he told his father. [He told Jacob] they ate from a living animal, that they insulted the sons of the maids (Bilha and Zilpa) calling them slaves, and that they were suspected of illicit relationships and was punished with all three. For [saying that they] ate from a living animal, they slaughtered a goat when they sold him and did not eat it alive. For slandering them that they called their brothers slaves, he was sold as a slave and for the sexual slanders, his masters wife laid eyes on him etc.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Sforno on Bereshit \/ Genesis 37:3, 3<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> \u05d5\u05e2\u05e9\u05d4 \u05dc\u05d5 \u05db\u05ea\u05d5\u05e0\u05ea \u05e4\u05e1\u05d9\u05dd, as a visible sign that Joseph was intended by him to become the leader of all the brothers both at home and in the field. The use of such distinctive clothing to symbolize someone\u2019s elevated stature is found also in Isaiah 22:21 \u05d5\u05d4\u05dc\u05d1\u05e9\u05ea\u05d9\u05d5 \u05db\u05ea\u05e0\u05ea\u05da, \u201cI will dress him (Chilkiyah) in your tunic,\u201d where it signals that authority is transferred to the one wearing the appropriate garments. (uniform). The Talmud Baba Kama 11 also confirms that authority is signaled by the attire worn by people possessing it. [there the brothers who had paid extra for their leader to represent them and to appear well dressed are quite content seeing that their representative while attired in costly garments will indirectly confer benefits upon them through their brother being listened to in the councils of the city. Ed.]<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The rabbinic commentaries state, the accusations Joseph brings against his brothers is regarding their disobedience to the command of God in the suspected illicit relationships that was occurring (Rashi). Sforno states that the visible sign Jacob gave to his son of the multi-colored coat, was that he was to become their leader. The rabbis conclude in the Talmud (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Baba Kama 11<\/span><\/em>) that one\u2019s clothing designates his authority. Therefore, his brothers were jealous of him because of their father\u2019s favoritism. Favoritism is the act of partiality or bias. To show favoritism is to give preference to one person over others with equal claims. This is similar to discrimination and may be based on conditions such as social class, wealth, clothing, actions, etc.<\/p>\n<p>The Scriptures clearly state that favoritism is not God\u2019s will for our lives, the primary reason is that the Lord God Himself does not show favoritism (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Romans 2:11<\/span><\/em>). Paul said in <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Ephesians 6:9 \u201cThere is no favoritism with him\u201d<\/span><\/em> and in <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Colossians 3:25<\/span><\/em> of the Lord\u2019s fairness in judgment saying, <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cAnyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism.\u201d<\/span><\/em> James said <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cMy brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don\u2019t show favoritism\u201d<\/span><\/em> (<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">James 2:1<\/span><\/em>). The context concerns the treatment of the rich and poor where James points out that treating someone differently based on his financial status or how he is dressed is wrong.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">James 2:1-10<\/span><\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> 2:1 My brethren, do not hold your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with an attitude of personal favoritism. 2:2 For if a man comes into your assembly with a gold ring and dressed in fine clothes, and there also comes in a poor man in dirty clothes, 2:3 and you pay special attention to the one who is wearing the fine clothes, and say, \u2018You sit here in a good place,\u2019 and you say to the poor man, \u2018You stand over there, or sit down by my footstool,\u2019 2:4 have you not made distinctions among yourselves, and become judges with evil motives? 2:5 Listen, my beloved brethren: did not God choose the poor of this world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom which He promised to those who love Him? 2:6 But you have dishonored the poor man. Is it not the rich who oppress you and personally drag you into court? 2:7 Do they not blaspheme the fair name by which you have been called? 2:8 If, however, you are fulfilling the royal law according to the Scripture, \u2018You shall love your neighbor as yourself,\u2019 you are doing well. 2:9 But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors. 2:10 For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles in one point, he has become guilty of all. (NASB)<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The Torah provides similar instruction regarding favoritism according to <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Vayikra \/ Leviticus 19:15 \u201cDo not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the great, but judge your neighbor fairly\u201d<\/span><\/em> and in <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Shemot \/ Exodus 23:3 \u201cDo not show favoritism to a poor man in his lawsuit.\u201d<\/span><\/em> Justice is to be blind to both the rich and poor, all people should be treated equally before the law. James further comments, <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">2:8 If, however, you are fulfilling the royal law according to the Scripture, \u2018You shall love your neighbor as yourself,\u2019 you are doing well. 2:9 But if you show partiality, you are committing sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors. (NASB)<\/span><\/em> Favoritism is a serious offense against God\u2019s call to love one\u2019s neighbor as oneself.<\/p>\n<p>In this week\u2019s Torah portion, there was definitely something going on between the sons of Jacob and Joseph based upon the way the MT is written, and the words, \u05d0\u05b5\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05d4 | \u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea \u05d9\u05b7\u05e2\u05b2\u05e7\u05b9\u05d1 <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthese are the generations of Jacob&#8230;,\u201d<\/span><\/em> where only Joseph is mentioned by name, and his brothers are mentioned as <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthe sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah.\u201d<\/span><\/em> Joseph dreamed two dreams, told these dreams to his brothers, and they said to one another. <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cBehold, here comes the master of dreams. Come let us kill him, let us throw him into one of the pits and say that a wild beast ate him. Then we shall see what becomes of his dreams.\u201d<\/span><\/em> The MT states that Joseph\u2019s brothers hated him. Some questions we can ask is, What does it mean <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cto hate?\u201d<\/span><\/em> Have you ever hated anyone? Is it possible to love and hate someone at the same time?<\/p>\n<p>Notice the significance of favoritism in the Torah, one son is favored over the others, and there is tension, jealousy, and eventual estrangement within the family. In Parashat Vayeshev, Joseph brings <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cbad reports\u201d<\/span><\/em> about the brothers to their father, and they see Jacob giving Joseph special treatment, such as his <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cketonet passim\u201d<\/span><\/em> (\u05db\u05bc\u05b0\u05ea\u05b9\u05e0\u05b6\u05ea \u05e4\u05bc\u05b7\u05e1\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd, a multi-colored cloak). The brothers are angry, jealous, and resentful, and thus alienated from one another. This is illustrated based upon the way the MT is written, how the words, \u05d0\u05b5\u05dc\u05bc\u05b6\u05d4 | \u05ea\u05bc\u05b9\u05dc\u05b0\u05d3\u05d5\u05b9\u05ea \u05d9\u05b7\u05e2\u05b2\u05e7\u05b9\u05d1 <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthese are the generations of Jacob&#8230;\u201d<\/span><\/em> and Moshe only mentioning Joseph by name, and his brothers as <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthe sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father\u2019s wives.\u201d<\/span><\/em> The significance of this week\u2019s portion is in the Torah\u2019s description of the emotional state of the resentful brothers. The Torah states, \u05d3 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b4\u05e8\u05b0\u05d0\u05d5\u05bc \u05d0\u05b6\u05d7\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05db\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9-\u05d0\u05b9\u05ea\u05d5\u05b9 \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b2\u05d1\u05b4\u05d9\u05d4\u05b6\u05dd \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d0\u05b6\u05d7\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05d5\u05b7\u05d9\u05bc\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e0\u05b0\u05d0\u05d5\u05bc \u05d0\u05b9\u05ea\u05d5\u05b9 \u05d5\u05b0\u05dc\u05b9\u05d0 \u05d9\u05b8\u05db\u05b0\u05dc\u05d5\u05bc \u05d3\u05bc\u05b7\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e8\u05d5\u05b9 \u05dc\u05b0\u05e9\u05c1\u05b8\u05dc\u05b9\u05dd: <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">37:4 His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers; and so they hated him and could not speak to him on friendly terms. (NASB)<\/span><\/em> specifically, \u05d5\u05b0\u05dc\u05b9\u05d0 \u05d9\u05b8\u05db\u05b0\u05dc\u05d5\u05bc \u05d3\u05bc\u05b7\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e8\u05d5\u05b9 \u05dc\u05b0\u05e9\u05c1\u05b8\u05dc\u05b9\u05dd <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthey could not speak with him peaceably.\u201d<\/span><\/em> Rashi says they didn\u2019t speak with him at all, whereas other commentators say that they spoke to Joseph resentfully, or spoke amongst themselves in non-peaceful ways against Joseph. This much is true based upon the Torah Portion and what they did to their brother. Rashi tries to give the brothers a little bit of credit by pointing out they were not hypocrites because they did not pretend to love him while hating him in their hearts. They hated Joseph and were not afraid to say so, and then followed through by their actions. It\u2019s not difficult to understand their anger and jealousy since their father had given Joseph special gifts, and for many years had loved Joseph\u2019s mother (Rachel) more than the mothers of the other brothers. Furthermore, Joseph seems to think of himself as special and privileged, by the way he reports to his father about his brothers. In addition, Joseph is described as <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthe son of Jacob\u2019s old age,\u201d<\/span><\/em> (\u05d2 \u05d5\u05b0\u05d9\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05b5\u05dc \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5 \u05db\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9-\u05d1\u05b6\u05df-\u05d6\u05b0\u05e7\u05bb\u05e0\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd \u05d4\u05d5\u05bc\u05d0 \u05dc\u05d5\u05b9 \u05d5\u05b0\u05e2\u05b8\u05e9\u05b8\u05b9\u05d4 \u05dc\u05d5\u05b9 \u05db\u05bc\u05b0\u05ea\u05b9\u05e0\u05b6\u05ea \u05e4\u05bc\u05b7\u05e1\u05bc\u05b4\u05d9\u05dd:), which suggests that Jacob gave Joseph a special relationship. Note that in the ancient world, the oldest child was the one who got the special privileges, however throughout the book of Genesis this role is reversed, where the younger receives the blessings, and the life of Jacob may have also had a part in his partiality towards Joseph (being the youngest) as compared to his brothers. So what does the Torah mean to teach us by saying they could not speak to him in peace?<\/p>\n<p>In the brothers statement, \u05d5\u05b0\u05dc\u05b9\u05d0 \u05d9\u05b8\u05db\u05b0\u05dc\u05d5\u05bc \u05d3\u05bc\u05b7\u05d1\u05bc\u05b0\u05e8\u05d5\u05b9 \u05dc\u05b0\u05e9\u05c1\u05b8\u05dc\u05b9\u05dd <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cthey could not speak with him peaceably,\u201d<\/span><\/em> we are told they gave free reign to their resentment, and that their resentment ruled over them. They allowed themselves to be filled with their anger, it ruled them, and led them down a path of performing great sins. This week\u2019s Torah portion speaks to us to be careful of hatred and the hatred of others, that is born out of pain, feelings of rejection, and jealousy. The danger is that this hatred may turn into something worse that may lead to all sorts of sins, even to the possibility of murder. It is with this in mind that Paul wrote in <em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Ephesians 4:24-27, 4:24 and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth. 4:25 Therefore, laying aside falsehood, speak truth each one of you with his neighbor, for we are members of one another. 4:26 Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 4:27 and do not give the devil an opportunity. (NASB)<\/span><\/em> In this way, we are called in the Messiah Yeshua, to be good to one another, to speak the truth, and to not let the sun go down on our anger, for there is the possibility that one\u2019s anger will lead to greater sin. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.matsati.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/BTT_Parashat-Vayeshev-2015.pdf\">BTT_Parashat Vayeshev-2015<\/a>  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[youtube url=&#8221;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=7zY-5IrMAK4&amp;feature=youtu.be&#8221;] In this week\u2019s reading from Parashat Vayeshev (Shemot \/ Genesis 37:1-40:23) we learn that Jacob loved Joseph more than his brothers (37:3, \u05d5\u05b0\u05d9\u05b4\u05e9\u05b0\u05b9\u05e8\u05b8\u05d0\u05b5\u05dc \u05d0\u05b8\u05d4\u05b7\u05d1 \u05d0\u05b6\u05ea-\u05d9\u05d5\u05b9\u05e1\u05b5\u05e3 \u05de\u05b4\u05db\u05bc\u05b8\u05dc-\u05d1\u05bc\u05b8\u05e0\u05b8\u05d9\u05d5). Joseph had a dream about his future (37:5-10) told his brothers and they became jealous (37:11). As the narrative continues, Joseph\u2019s brothers are plotting murder in their [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5257,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5254","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bits-of-torah-truth"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5254","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5254"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5254\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5254"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5254"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.matsati.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5254"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}